Book Review: The Winner's Trilogy

Safe to say that I don't often write reviews, mostly because not enough time.

BUT, the conclusion of a favorite series is a monumental thing.

THE WINNER'S TRILOGY

by Marie Rutkoski

Summary of Book I, Book II, Book III
Order Book I, Book II, Book III

Spoiler Free Review

This series just works on so many levels. Here I break down why:

The Characters

You won't find run of the mill characters in this trilogy. No tropes, no cliches. Instead you have characters who complement each other PERFECTLY. They were meant to be in these books, meant to be in their roles. Everything is so purposefully drawn. Specifically, our two leads weren't just chosen because they were intriguing on their own. So often this is the case, and yet it results in relationships lacking chemistry. Arin and Kestrel make so much sense as a pair. They are so similar, yet so different. What works so well is that they are equals in so many ways, and yet by the constructs of society, they are in very different places at the start of the series. The most beautiful journey is watching them slowly overcome their differences in initial positions and rediscovering the people they are innately, and reconciling how they have changed by the end of the journey. Secondary characters are also very nuanced and compelling.

The Writing

Second to plot (because I like to predict all the things), writing is probably what I'm most critical of, just because I admire good writing so much and am always striving to improve my own. The thing about good writing is that it's never too showy. It should never overtake the story. It serves. It's all too easy to forget this. Even now, when I read through my own drafts, I find lines that make me frown and think huh...I have a feeling that I just wrote that to be pretty.

Now, when you have the writing prowess of Marie, it's tempting to just fill a book of pretty writing that doesn't always serve the characters and the story. But these books don't fall into that trap. The writing and the story serve each other equally. Neither overpowers the other. You have scenes where the emotions and story need to take front and center. In those cases the writing does its job beautifully but knows not to overextend itself. Then you have quieter moments where the book gets more contemplative and emotional, and the writing knows that it's its time to shine. The balance of all things is handled so well.

Also, if you have trouble thinking of a mean metaphor, read this series. Oh my goodness, this series is loaded with the MOST BEAUTIFUL OF METAPHORS EVER.

The Plot

This is one of those rare times when for once I wasn't trying to out-think the author and predict all the twists. When there are twists, they are the sort that reside in the deepest part of your gut, the ones that you subconsciously aware of, as if you're watching this horror and with each second you KNOW something terrible is going to come, but the magic is you cannot look away. you absolutely cannot. You feel your helplessness - it's mirrored in the characters themselves - and Marie is a master at using that to drive the story forward.

Final Thoughts

Everything was handled so deftly, with so much care and honesty.

Something that my mom pointed out (because she's a fan of the books too) is that she could tell that the author had deep knowledge of the classics. I know what she means. The Winner's Trilogy is like a fine dark chocolate - it's not the initial burst of sweetness that knocks you off your feet, but rather slow unraveling of flavors and the series reveals its many layers. These books are the types that are worth reading and rereading over and over again, because there's always another shade of emotion to be discovered and another turn of phrase to be savored.

So there you have it. An extremely gushy/vague review (didn't want to spoil anything).

tldr; read The Winner's Trilogy. Do it, and then come back here to fangirl with me.

Self-Compassion Series: A Decompression Guide

The title says it all. For more context, I recently tweeted that I didn't get a chance to decompress over Spring Break, and so I'm trying to do that now. I'm a semi-workaholic ("semi" because I usually don't care at all about the things I'm not passionate about) and sometimes it's hard to remember to take some time to reengage with other passions.

Usual disclaimer: This is a list of things that work for me - yours will probably look different. I find the act of writing out the list helpful in reaffirming that I should do some of these things, so you might find it helpful to write out yours too.

THE GUIDE

1. Pleasure-read. This can be CPing, but often times for me, since I feel obligated to give any MS I'm CPing serious thought and digestion, I don't consider CPing pleasure reading. 

2. Go to a cozy cafe and eat + drink delicious things.

3. Combination of the above: read at your favorite cafe.

4. Catch up on sleep.

5. Exercise.

6. Take nice, long walks that don't really do anything significant for your cardiovascular health but are really good for you nonetheless.

7. Retail therapy.

8. Go out to dinner.

9. Watch a movie.

10. Engage in other forms of story-consumption - read fanfiction, read manga, watch anime, watch TV shows. 

11. If you have a pet, hug it.

12. If you're an extrovert - go be social.

13. If you're an introvert...try being social, unless it stresses you out, in which case hermit away.

14. Clean your living/working space.

15. Wash the pillowcases, sheets, and blankets.

16. Stay in your newly-cleaned bed all day.

17. Bake.

18. Cook.

19. Share your baking and cooking with someone special.

20. Be okay with doing "nothing". This is honestly the hardest one for me. It's okay to be unproductive. It's all about the balance. 

What are some things that you do to decompress? 

Writing in College

Been meaning to write this post, and since it's the end of my spring break, I thought I'd get it up! From the title, you'll know that I'm going to get down to the truth of how I make time to write in college.

For a similar reads, here are some general tips I gave in a pervious post: 3 tips on juggling writing and school

A lot of writers are faced with the sentiment: "oh, I wish I had that much time to write!" And while the frustration writers feel in response is usually universal, everyone has a different way of making the time. Some carve out sacred hours. Some save the writing for weekends. For me, and for many others most likely, it's all about leading that double life.

STUDENT AND WRITER

I do decently in school, which fools people into thinking that I'm a massive try-hard (e.g. I was nominated for the "most likely to study for the SATs after the SATs" superlative senior year of high school, which was totally untrue--until I accepted the job to tutor SATs and then yes, I did have to study for the SATs three years after taking them -___-).

The truth is, I don't actually give school my all. I procrastinate. I cut corners by studying "just enough", whatever that means to whomever. I have a fantastic short-term memory which, to the dismay of my mom who would really like me to master Chinese, means that I excel at taking vocab quizzes by cramming the characters and forget them shortly afterwards.

But the aforementioned things alone do not "make" the time, especially since I am possibly one of the slowest writers I know. Instead, I've had to make decisions, most easy, but some harder.

I would be as busy as any other undergraduate if not for the following choices:

DISCLAIMER: I'm not saying that these are good or bad choices. These are simply choices that work for me.

• I'm majoring in psychology, which isn't a walk in the park, but plays toward my strengths of being able to read and memorize, meaning that I can be more efficient in learning the material, meaning that I have more time to write. 
• I'm not minoring, because I'd rather take a random assortment of classes for the pure sake of interest than fulfilling more required credits. This allows me to broaden my knowledge base and dabble in many things, which makes for inspiration, and also allows me more time. 
• I take 4 classes each semester, which is 1 class fewer than the average load of 5. 
• I participate in one club.
• (and this one I hesitate to list because it's not an active choice...for the most part). I have no social life. A lot of people say this, but I say this and live this. I've never been to a single party even though I'm at a college with a "work hard, play hard" philosophy. I rarely hang out in person with friends. By nature, I am a super-introvert, and I like to hermit, so as I've said, it's mostly personal preference.

Am I sacrificing a bit of my college experience? Yes. Am I taking risks? Yes. Though I keep in contact with the the close ones, I might have fewer friends than the average fresh-out-of-college student at graduation. Minors might become all the rage, and I might not be able to find a job without one. Psychology isn't exactly the easiest field to find a career in, especially without a higher degree. 

But I take these risks. I've taken them before.

BEFORE

Before I lived the double life of student and writer, I lived the double life of student and artist. Looking back on the years (age 7-14), those "sacrifices" weren't as big as I made them out to be (Weekends spent in the studio. Weekdays spent in the studio. Competitions entered, competitions lost. Less time for playdates, more time spent staring at nude models, which is always a fun conversation topic now, but wasn't something I could casually bring up back in middle school). But they hurt as a kid. And I ultimately "quit" art (stepped off the professional track) because I was neither mature enough to understand why things had to be less than fun sometimes NOR (and this is key) passionate enough about art. 

NOW

I'm grateful that I experienced those previous years, because they've taught me that if you have a dream that you are passionate about, you have to give it your all, embracing both the bits that are fun and the bits that kind of suck, but are worth it in the long run.

If you're also leading the life of a writer and something else, I'd love to know what choices you've made in order to juggle both!